What does my dream mean?

I dont wish to get you worried here but let me tell you a story. My father had two boys by his first wife and then she died. He then remaried and had a larger family with my mother. My mother had problems with his first two boys and she said to me its difficult bringing up someone elses children. When I got married it was to a devorced lady who had two boys so the pattern seemed to be repeating itself. My daughter had two boys with her first husband and now is devorced so there seems to be a repeat in the third generation. I have done a lot of research into other families on this and you will be amazed how events seem to repeat each generation on. do a bit of research yourself and see. It does seem as if we are just reincarnating and playing a simular role.